Year 2021 has seen various ups and downs in lives of people. Some have lost their dear ones, business were closed down but at the same time our favourite ones got their new lives, new businesses were started…so it’s a sweet and sour year for all of us.
Lets read what Smita Saksena wants to share about the Year2021
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Best Of 2K21 – The Year Made Me B+
Let me be honest, 2K21 was not an incredible year(Actually it was terrible) – yet, 2K21 had its fair share of extraordinary happy moments, glory, and lessons. Like most of us, my family and I also had numerous afflictions and dealt with different health issues, however today I might want to share just positive ones which helped me to be a better person.
1. My family and I had health issues – however, we had a family and a tribe of friends to help and support us all around. The huge help we got, made us more confident, positive, and somewhat more close-knit & affectionate.
2. I Talk Less Now And Listening to More To People In Need To Share Something – I began to listen more to individuals who need to share something and don’t have anybody to listen to them. I would like to be a ‘buddy’ with whom anyone can share their mental health issues. I promise I’ll listen without any judgemental and biased opinions.
3. Likewise, I Started To Speak For Myself Through My Writings – I realised, my silence was giving a wrong impression to the people that I am a weak person and cannot stand for myself. And then I decided to speak against wrong things and tried to put my thoughts in my blog posts.
4. I Started Taking Care For My Health Seriously – My sugar levels were going down frequently, the early menopause stage has begun and(I was in a horrendous state), my thumb was cracked, spouse’s surgery, daughter’s food poisoning – at first everything made me frantic. However, inside me, a feeble ray of hope was keep saying to me that, it’s just a stage and will pass as well. I gathered all the courage and didn’t cry for even a single time. Indeed, I attempted to smile every day, every second when life was tossing difficulties towards me(& us) consistently. In this way, I figured out how to SMILE in unpleasant circumstances and I take care of my family and myself like never before, as wellbeing is a valid abundance.
5. My Dream – My Website –
My significant time-frame anticipated dream-cum-venture worked out as expected when I launched my site – ‘Roots And Wings By Smita’, with no technical knowledge, support, and backing. People (Actually strangers upheld me in my blogging excursion and not my so-called ‘familiar ones’) upheld me and appreciated my composing. I felt so proud and happy with myself and yes I pat myself for this accomplishment. I’m making baby strides, one at a time. But I know, for ‘some people’ it perhaps such a little or no accomplishment by any means. Yes, I learn to appreciate myself.
6. Restarted And Rebooted My Life And Trying To Delete Many Things – I am attempting to restart my existence without all the toxicity, negativity, and judgmental people. I rebooted my existence with my tribe(my genuine emotional support system). I’m attempting to delete all that causes me to feel wiped out.
This 2K21 caused me to understand the significance of restart, reboot, and delete, and I am happy that I did it.
Trust, hope, wellbeing, and normal life are my list of things to get for the new year 2K22.
Cheers
Celebrate Life Smita Saksena
