Motherhood is often described as a full-time job, but what happens when you already have one? As a mother and an entrepreneur, I have lived through the beautiful chaos of balancing career and motherhood. It’s not easy, but it’s possible.
The Emotional Tug-of-War
The moment I became a mother, my priorities shifted. I felt an overwhelming sense of responsibility, not just towards my child but also towards the business I had nurtured like a baby. Many women face this dilemma: Should we slow down our careers or push forward? The truth is, there’s no right answer, only the one that works for you.
I have missed bedtime stories to attend crucial meetings, and I have postponed business calls to soothe my child. Each choice comes with its share of guilt, but I have learned to embrace imperfection. I remind myself that being a good mother means being present in the moments that matter the most.
Through my journey, I’ve found some strategies that have helped me maintain balance. Here are a few that might help other working mothers:
1. Set Boundaries & Stick to Them
Work will always demand more of you, but so will your child. Define your working hours and family time, and try to honour them. For me, evenings are non-negotiable family time, no matter how hectic the day has been.
2. Embrace the Power of Planning
A well-planned day is half the battle won. I start my mornings by mapping out work priorities and personal commitments. A shared calendar with my family helps avoid last-minute chaos.
3. Build a Support System
They say it takes a village to raise a child, and I believe the same applies to building a career while raising one. Whether it’s a partner, family, friends, or a reliable nanny, having a trusted support system makes all the difference.
4. Learn to Delegate
Both at work and home, delegation is a lifesaver. At work, I trust my team to handle tasks efficiently. At home, I involve my child in small chores, making them feel included while easing my load.
5. Prioritize Self-Care
In the whirlwind of responsibilities, mothers often forget to take care of themselves. A well-rested, happy mother is more productive and emotionally available. Whether it’s reading, exercising, or just enjoying a cup of coffee in peace, make time for yourself.
Real Stories, Real Struggles
I have met countless women who have struggled and triumphed in this journey. A friend of mine, a doctor, chose to take a break after childbirth and restarted her career on her terms. Another, a corporate executive, opted for flexible work arrangements. Each story is unique, proving that there is no single formula for success, only the one that fits your life.
Balancing career and motherhood is an evolving process. Some days will feel like a win, others like a complete mess. The key is to let go of the guilt, embrace the journey, and find what works for you. To all the working mothers out there, your career and your child can thrive together. You are doing better than you think!
Shared by: Sonam Garg Sharma,
Founder and CEO of Medical Linkers
